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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:36:39 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Blog</title><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/</link><description></description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:34:01 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Anticlimactic Aspirations</title><category>Clients</category><category>Climactic</category><category>Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff</category><category>Frustrations</category><category>Sade</category><category>blues</category><category>companion</category><category>drunk</category><category>pain</category><category>pensive</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:40:54 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/2/18/anticlimactic-aspirations.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:6746055</guid><description><![CDATA[Climactic sings Che Cos’é in a slightly off tune female voice that suggests the singer is somewhat influenced by mild intoxication and a micro fiber lust that aims to be velvet. It was sent to me by an aspiring Italian lover whom I know will never be one.  In the theme of aspirations, I am aspiring to be drunk but am well aware at this point that it is just another thing that will not be achieved.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-6746055.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Art Of Erotica</title><category>Art</category><category>Art</category><category>Erotica</category><category>Events</category><category>Exhibit</category><category>Gallery</category><category>Madrid</category><category>Show</category><category>Spain</category><category>Tears of Eros</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 15:25:06 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/1/17/the-art-of-erotica.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:6351623</guid><description><![CDATA[I am frequently online in search of events that are erotic without being sleazy. I find it most unfortunate that sex and trash so often go hand in hand. It’s proven a great challenge to find anything sexy online that didn’t leave me with my head in my hand sighing big breaths of disapproval and shame, so I was pleasantly surprised when I learned of this.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-6351623.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Another Inductee Into The Hall Of Anony Ignom</title><category>Anonymous Ignominy</category><category>Dating</category><category>Frustrations</category><category>Men</category><category>Public Figures</category><category>Skype</category><category>prestige</category><category>presumption</category><category>relationshiops</category><category>shame</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 15:21:11 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/30/another-inductee-into-the-hall-of-anony-ignom.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:6171701</guid><description><![CDATA[Another man banished to the Hall of Anonymous Ignominy.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-6171701.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Putting Something More Interesting On The Table</title><category>Christmas</category><category>Ennen Von Unwerth</category><category>Fraulein</category><category>Media</category><category>Products, Toys And Things Of The Such</category><category>Public Figures</category><category>Taschen</category><category>Tiger Woods</category><category>Valentines</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 12:27:55 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/25/putting-something-more-interesting-on-the-table.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:6140718</guid><description><![CDATA[At the moment, my interest is on a subject far less accessible than a spot in Tiger Wood’s little black book.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-6140718.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Duality Of Disposition And Reticence Vs. Rebellion</title><category>Blogging</category><category>Debates</category><category>Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff</category><category>Frustrations</category><category>Life</category><category>My Projects</category><category>Quotes</category><category>Writing</category><category>conflict</category><category>discovery</category><category>freedom</category><category>investigation</category><category>privacy</category><category>writing</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 21:54:21 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/16/duality-of-disposition-and-reticence-vs-rebellion.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5823826</guid><description><![CDATA[At what point does practicing our uttermost verbal freedom actually entrap us?  Is it out reticence or our rebellion that ultimately grants us a greater voice?]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5823826.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Art And Pity Of Pleasurable Pretense</title><category>Clients</category><category>Frustrations</category><category>Sex</category><category>chemistry</category><category>hookers</category><category>lies</category><category>money</category><category>pretend</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:50:33 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/11/the-art-and-pity-of-pleasurable-pretense.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5767375</guid><description><![CDATA[I’ve had this conversation time and time again.  It’s so well versed, I can say it in my sleep.  I’ve been saying it like it’s my first time saying it every time I’ve said it for the past 5 years.  I say it with enthusiasm.  I say it like I’m excited that he feels the exact way I feel.  I say it as if it’s the most magical moment, like finally, finally, I have met someone who is looking for the same thing I’m looking for.  I genuinely, sincerely connect with this brilliant man, who I’ve been waiting for all my adult life.  Finally, someone who “gets me” !

I say a lot of things I don’t mean.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5767375.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Provocative Pedagogy</title><category>Class</category><category>Kids</category><category>Media</category><category>Penthouse</category><category>Rachel Whitell</category><category>School</category><category>Sexuality</category><category>Teacher</category><category>Women In The Industry</category><category>scandal</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 10:12:39 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/10/provocative-pedagogy.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5751907</guid><description><![CDATA[Time and time again we hear about them. On the weekdays, they profess. On the weekends, they pose - for anything from automotive calendars to spreads in Penthouse. The duality of their lives often create controversy at the least, if not a whole new job opening at the school they taught at. The question is: is this a deserved dispute?]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5751907.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Quick And Dirty</title><category>Coconut</category><category>David Letterman</category><category>Dorchester</category><category>Events</category><category>Friends</category><category>Gore Vidal</category><category>Joe Halderman</category><category>Media</category><category>Public Figures</category><category>Roman Polanski</category><category>School</category><category>Twitter</category><category>University</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:06:58 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/2/quick-and-dirty.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5676440</guid><description><![CDATA[A scanty scoop.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5676440.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>The Incest Of Elite Companionship</title><category>Dorchester</category><category>Events</category><category>Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff</category><category>Friends</category><category>Men</category><category>companion</category><category>dilemma</category><category>elite</category><category>networks</category><category>small world</category><category>social circles</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 08:42:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/27/the-incest-of-elite-companionship.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5311047</guid><description><![CDATA[When faced with the dilemma of secret dating incest, what does a girl do?  If this were a typical situation, the answer would be easy.  You do not date your friend’s friends or the former lovers of your friends.  You walk away.  But there are layers to this particular situation that give it the complexity of an 82 Chateaux Margaux.]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5311047.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Sach It To Ya (Banker Buys Broad - Loses Mind)</title><category>Alzbeta Holmokova</category><category>Denis Morley</category><category>Escort</category><category>Goldman Sachs</category><category>Life</category><category>Media</category><category>Yann Samuelides</category><category>banker</category><category>bribe</category><category>businessman</category><category>divorce</category><category>marriage</category><category>suicide</category><dc:creator>Raquel</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 15:31:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/9/sach-it-to-ya-banker-buys-broad-loses-mind.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">229484:2278770:5137292</guid><description><![CDATA[28 year old Slovakian hookers, 67 year old retired businessmen in denial and suicidal Goldman Sachs bankers are just so charming, aren't they?]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/rss-comments-entry-5137292.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>