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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:36:10 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Blog</title><subtitle>Blog</subtitle><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2010-03-10T19:34:01Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Anticlimactic Aspirations</title><category term="Clients"/><category term="Climactic"/><category term="Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff"/><category term="Frustrations"/><category term="Sade"/><category term="blues"/><category term="companion"/><category term="drunk"/><category term="pain"/><category term="pensive"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/2/18/anticlimactic-aspirations.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/2/18/anticlimactic-aspirations.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2010-02-18T23:40:54Z</published><updated>2010-02-18T23:40:54Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Climactic sings Che Cos’é in a slightly off tune female voice that suggests the singer is somewhat influenced by mild intoxication and a micro fiber lust that aims to be velvet. It was sent to me by an aspiring Italian lover whom I know will never be one.  In the theme of aspirations, I am aspiring to be drunk but am well aware at this point that it is just another thing that will not be achieved.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>The Art Of Erotica</title><category term="Art"/><category term="Art"/><category term="Erotica"/><category term="Events"/><category term="Exhibit"/><category term="Gallery"/><category term="Madrid"/><category term="Show"/><category term="Spain"/><category term="Tears of Eros"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/1/17/the-art-of-erotica.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2010/1/17/the-art-of-erotica.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2010-01-17T15:25:06Z</published><updated>2010-01-17T15:25:06Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[I am frequently online in search of events that are erotic without being sleazy. I find it most unfortunate that sex and trash so often go hand in hand. It’s proven a great challenge to find anything sexy online that didn’t leave me with my head in my hand sighing big breaths of disapproval and shame, so I was pleasantly surprised when I learned of this.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Another Inductee Into The Hall Of Anony Ignom</title><category term="Anonymous Ignominy"/><category term="Dating"/><category term="Frustrations"/><category term="Men"/><category term="Public Figures"/><category term="Skype"/><category term="prestige"/><category term="presumption"/><category term="relationshiops"/><category term="shame"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/30/another-inductee-into-the-hall-of-anony-ignom.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/30/another-inductee-into-the-hall-of-anony-ignom.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-12-30T15:21:11Z</published><updated>2009-12-30T15:21:11Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Another man banished to the Hall of Anonymous Ignominy.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Putting Something More Interesting On The Table</title><category term="Christmas"/><category term="Ennen Von Unwerth"/><category term="Fraulein"/><category term="Media"/><category term="Products, Toys And Things Of The Such"/><category term="Public Figures"/><category term="Taschen"/><category term="Tiger Woods"/><category term="Valentines"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/25/putting-something-more-interesting-on-the-table.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/12/25/putting-something-more-interesting-on-the-table.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-12-25T12:27:55Z</published><updated>2009-12-25T12:27:55Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[At the moment, my interest is on a subject far less accessible than a spot in Tiger Wood’s little black book.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Duality Of Disposition And Reticence Vs. Rebellion</title><category term="Blogging"/><category term="Debates"/><category term="Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff"/><category term="Frustrations"/><category term="Life"/><category term="My Projects"/><category term="Quotes"/><category term="Writing"/><category term="conflict"/><category term="discovery"/><category term="freedom"/><category term="investigation"/><category term="privacy"/><category term="writing"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/16/duality-of-disposition-and-reticence-vs-rebellion.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/16/duality-of-disposition-and-reticence-vs-rebellion.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-11-16T21:54:21Z</published><updated>2009-11-16T21:54:21Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[At what point does practicing our uttermost verbal freedom actually entrap us?  Is it out reticence or our rebellion that ultimately grants us a greater voice?]]></summary></entry><entry><title>The Art And Pity Of Pleasurable Pretense</title><category term="Clients"/><category term="Frustrations"/><category term="Sex"/><category term="chemistry"/><category term="hookers"/><category term="lies"/><category term="money"/><category term="pretend"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/11/the-art-and-pity-of-pleasurable-pretense.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/11/the-art-and-pity-of-pleasurable-pretense.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-11-11T20:50:33Z</published><updated>2009-11-11T20:50:33Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[I’ve had this conversation time and time again.  It’s so well versed, I can say it in my sleep.  I’ve been saying it like it’s my first time saying it every time I’ve said it for the past 5 years.  I say it with enthusiasm.  I say it like I’m excited that he feels the exact way I feel.  I say it as if it’s the most magical moment, like finally, finally, I have met someone who is looking for the same thing I’m looking for.  I genuinely, sincerely connect with this brilliant man, who I’ve been waiting for all my adult life.  Finally, someone who “gets me” !

I say a lot of things I don’t mean.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Provocative Pedagogy</title><category term="Class"/><category term="Kids"/><category term="Media"/><category term="Penthouse"/><category term="Rachel Whitell"/><category term="School"/><category term="Sexuality"/><category term="Teacher"/><category term="Women In The Industry"/><category term="scandal"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/10/provocative-pedagogy.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/10/provocative-pedagogy.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-11-10T10:12:39Z</published><updated>2009-11-10T10:12:39Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Time and time again we hear about them. On the weekdays, they profess. On the weekends, they pose - for anything from automotive calendars to spreads in Penthouse. The duality of their lives often create controversy at the least, if not a whole new job opening at the school they taught at. The question is: is this a deserved dispute?]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Quick And Dirty</title><category term="Coconut"/><category term="David Letterman"/><category term="Dorchester"/><category term="Events"/><category term="Friends"/><category term="Gore Vidal"/><category term="Joe Halderman"/><category term="Media"/><category term="Public Figures"/><category term="Roman Polanski"/><category term="School"/><category term="Twitter"/><category term="University"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/2/quick-and-dirty.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/11/2/quick-and-dirty.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-11-02T13:06:58Z</published><updated>2009-11-02T13:06:58Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[A scanty scoop.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>The Incest Of Elite Companionship</title><category term="Dorchester"/><category term="Events"/><category term="Fears, Hopes And Mushy Stuff"/><category term="Friends"/><category term="Men"/><category term="companion"/><category term="dilemma"/><category term="elite"/><category term="networks"/><category term="small world"/><category term="social circles"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/27/the-incest-of-elite-companionship.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/27/the-incest-of-elite-companionship.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-09-27T08:42:01Z</published><updated>2009-09-27T08:42:01Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[When faced with the dilemma of secret dating incest, what does a girl do?  If this were a typical situation, the answer would be easy.  You do not date your friend’s friends or the former lovers of your friends.  You walk away.  But there are layers to this particular situation that give it the complexity of an 82 Chateaux Margaux.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Sach It To Ya (Banker Buys Broad - Loses Mind)</title><category term="Alzbeta Holmokova"/><category term="Denis Morley"/><category term="Escort"/><category term="Goldman Sachs"/><category term="Life"/><category term="Media"/><category term="Yann Samuelides"/><category term="banker"/><category term="bribe"/><category term="businessman"/><category term="divorce"/><category term="marriage"/><category term="suicide"/><id>http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/9/sach-it-to-ya-banker-buys-broad-loses-mind.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.sexandjournalism.com/blog/2009/9/9/sach-it-to-ya-banker-buys-broad-loses-mind.html"/><author><name>Raquel</name></author><published>2009-09-09T15:31:01Z</published><updated>2009-09-09T15:31:01Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[28 year old Slovakian hookers, 67 year old retired businessmen in denial and suicidal Goldman Sachs bankers are just so charming, aren't they?]]></summary></entry></feed>